💖QUICK THOUGHTS ON BIG & SMALL WINS

For productivity & fulfilment 

This photo is #MuseMama life. 
Ignoring the laundry to get some creative work done...even if it’s slowed down by itchy toddler fingers.

Because #BigWins like crossing off “Prep watercolour scans for uploading to redbubble shop” is more satisfying than a #smallwin like “fold laundry”

If these last couple weeks of school holiday mess, sleep regression toddler & a couple days of flu and colds have taught me

it's that this Muse Mama needs BOTH

A 'small' win like: 
taking a shower! Cleared the kitchen bench! Ate breakfast while it was still warm! only reheated my coffee once!

and a 'Big' win... Which is usually something to do with my purpose work. My creativity, my 'work' or anything that helps me BE the kind of mama, creative, wife, warrior muse leader I am called to be.

Which sometimes look like design work, sometimes it's painting, sometimes it's admin for my business. 

Sometimes it's sitting down and doing a solid 15minutes of journaling and writing out all the chaos in my brain.

Sometimes it's making the time, releasing the guilt to draw myself a bath. Or going to bed straight after putting the girls to bed and reading.

Or ignoring the laundry to cross off something that's been on my to do list (& mental burden) for months.

I understand that it's all relative & subjective what a 'small' or 'big' win is. All dependant on your season in life, your personality or your soul needs.

But try it! If you're feeling overwhelmed. If you're feeling like your every minute is filled up and STILL not feeling that sense of satisfaction.
You probably needed a bit more of one or the other. 

💖A small win. Something that on the surface of it, doesn't seem like much... but makes you feel like a star & gives you the boost of confidence you need for the big win.

Doing too much of this usually means you're in Resistance about the big win & leaves you feeling unfulfilled. 

Doing too little means 
💖A big win. Something that fulfils you, that has been nagging at you, that you've been avoiding for 'next time' or 'perfect time'. Something that Resistance has be super happy about you NOT doing.

Doing only big win things usually means ignoring the little things that eventually become BIG messes & that sucks your energy from having joy in your purpose work.

Like having a tiny pebble in your shoe. Easy to ignore for a bit so you can focus on where you need to go. But eventually it will wear you down. 

And your job is to tweak, adjust & learn your flavour of both. 
How much you need to do of each. 
What you need from each. 
Which one tends to show up depending on life & moods. 
Who you need to BE to reconnect back to the inner knowing of what you need to do next.

🔥What kind of win do you need to give yourself today? 

Drop me an emoji below that represents what you Big win & Small win feels like!

Mine: 💖💖💖 (big win) ⚡️🔥⚡️ (small win)

- x Brenda -

p.s Want to chat more about weaving that sense of purpose & fun & creativity & flow with your mamahood?

Muse Mama is increasing in price soon as I revamp the resources & match the value that's inside the village. 

Do you find yourself feeling this sense of DISatisfaction in your life? 

Don’t get me wrong, you totally are GRATEFUL and your life is totally FINE…. Yet there is this BUT….
There is this sense that something is missing

You LOVE your kids — but you’re finding that they don’t need you as much anymore. 
Whether leaving the nest, starting full time school or just finding yourself coming out of the fog of those early months.

You are tired of only having stories about your kids to share. Something THEY did, something THEY achieved or learnt or did that was horrifying. 

You had promised yourself that you weren’t going to be the mama that lives through their children!

That thing you’re missing? It’s the creative spark. It’s the spark of fulfilment that comes with feeling ON PURPOSE. It’s the spark of joy that gives life meaning.

You LOVE your kids — but they are NOT your identity (you want to find it or explore it more. Working out who you are in this new chapter)

You want to find YOU again

There is something MORE you are being called to do. You don’t need to be clear about what exactly that is…but you know that it’s there and you can’t ignore it anymore. 

You know that ignoring that call, ignoring that inner voice is actually affecting the way you show up in your mamahood. You give EVERYTHING to your kids — but you need help to give that same love to YOURSELF

And you know that creativity is the seed from which the blossom of your next beautiful chapter will bloom.

Then I want to invite you to join us as a Muse Mama

What is a Muse Mama?

⚡️Ambitious & spiritual mamas — creative mamas who want to do MORE than mamahood IN ORDER TO BE THE BEST MAMA they can be. 

✨A space to find support & inspiration from me, a professional artist (& your fellow Muses!) on living a creative life & cultivating a creative practice. 
Because your creativity is the source of your joy, your fulfilment & the seed for the great work that is calling you. 

⚡️Where you will find accountability to DARE TO TAKE THE NEXT STEP. Because you’re tired of just dreaming and wishing. You want to start DOING, even in small tiny baby steps. 

✨A source of encouragement when Resistance & Sabotage shows up. Doing it alone doesn’t work! It takes a village to raise a kid - it also takes one to raise the kind of fulfilled woman you want to be. One that is living a life of joyful purpose!

💖 Muse Mama is for you to find customised support - Let us hold space for you in your journey with your creativity. When you LOVE your work & life BEYOND your babies, you THRIVE and so does your family. 
Whether it’s something you do in-between naps & feeds or something new just for you now your kids are grown or somewhere inbetween- it’s your chosen work!

💖Are you tired of feeling alone? Like you’re the odd one out? Muse Mama is for you to find your support circle with fellow Muse Mamas who understand your juggle to weave babies with biz and work and self-care and your calling. 

💖Are you sick of groups that are just full of questions about the latest nap schedules, or lunchbox ideas or yet another debate about how to discipline your babies? You want to talk about something else! 

Do you want resources & support on the Mindset & Manifestation Magic you need as a creative mama?

Do you want to have a conscious connection with other ambitious women BEYOND mamahood?

Who inspire you and are inspired BY YOU with the world changing Big Dream you are being called to create

Whether that is planting a rose garden or ending poverty — you don’t have to do it alone!

Are you looking for a space to cultivate your confidence, creativity & your calling? 
To finding YOUR flavour of weaving biz & babies, work & life?

NO perfect people allowed - we move forward in our imperfection
NO set formula & magic bullet answers - only frameworks, tools & resources for you to find YOUR perfectly imperfect way
NO judgement - a safe space to explore, find clarity & connect with others just like you 

💖MUSE MAMA is currently open for new creative mamas looking to inspire the world through their own inspired work. 
Join TODAY at the current price before it doubles for the next round.
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